According to online restaurant booking website The Fork, restaurant reservations for a single person rose by 18% in 2024. A recent study published by ObSoCo shows that the fall in the birth rate can also be explained by the fall in the number of couples. According to INSEE, the proportion of under-30s living in couples fell by 15 percentage points between 1990 and 2020, from 70% to 55%. This figure does not take into account “non-cohabiting” couples who, while maintaining a relationship, choose to keep their homes separate. This phenomenon, which can be observed just about everywhere in the world, has been described as a ‘relationship recession’ by the Financial Times, which is never far behind a trend.
There are many explanations for this: later entry into the workforce, the cost of housing and (above all) the increasing individualisation of behaviour, particularly among young women, who prefer to remain single rather than enter a relationship that does not meet their expectations, including in terms of domestic equality. Singlehood is tending to become the norm, and a couple who move in together are now more likely to separate than to have a child…
As a result, solo offers are multiplying, from ‘solo trips’ for people travelling alone (increasingly numerous), to literary retreats (the latest trend), the ‘Eating alone’ tab on the Fooding website and the widespread use of counters facing the kitchens in restaurants. This way, the show is no longer just in the dining room, but provided by the brigade. Long live show cooking!
But beyond these new targeted proposals, solo life is also sparking an over-investment in friendships among younger people, which can be seen as much in the success of “Spritz + board” aperitifs (on the way to supplanting dinners), board games and In Real Life evenings without phones, as in immersive museum visits, escape games or novel shopping experiences, with pop-ups or unexpected collabs.
This explains why experience is now more sought-after than possession: a promise of emotional sharing and images destined to circulate on social media. Moments that create memories rather than ego-building purchases. More than ever, consuming is sharing.